How to Find (and Keep) a Language Partner

You can memorize a dictionary, but if you can't talk to a human, you don't know the language. A Language Exchange Partner is the best way to bridge the gap between study and reality. But finding a good one is like dating—it takes effort.

Where to Look

• Apps: HelloTalk, Tandem, and Speaky are great for finding people worldwide.
• Sites: iTalki or Preply (for paid tutors, which are more reliable).
• Local: Meetup.com language exchange groups in your city.

The Golden Rule: 50/50 Split

The biggest reason exchanges fail is imbalance. One person talks for 50 minutes in English, and you only get 10 minutes in Korean. Be strict. Set a timer. "30 minutes English, 30 minutes Korean." When the timer rings, switch languages immediately.

How to Keep the Conversation Going

Don't just say "Hi, how are you?" every time. Come prepared.

• Topic of the Week: Agree to talk about "Travel" or "Food" beforehand.
• Article Discussion: Both read a short article and discuss it.
• Roleplay: Pretend to be a shopkeeper and a customer.

Conclusion

A good language partner is more than a teacher; they are a window into the culture and a friend. Treat the relationship with respect, be consistent, and you will learn more over coffee than you ever could in a classroom.